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[Apr. 25th, 2009|03:01 pm] |
Tim and I are spending the weekend hanging out and relaxing. I'm feeling almost 100% better but now he's sick with a cold. So far, we spent our Friday night watching random videos (including some Dan Savage on youtube), playing scrabble online and eating homemade pizza. Saturday has included getting up early, making german pancakes, repotting some plants, watching Grey's Anatomy (Tim abstained), making squash and roasted red pepper soup and playing backgammon. Other exciting plans include more videos and maybe some napping. I am really enjoying having Tim home and in a way a stay-at-home, relaxing weekend is probably the best way for us to reconnect and adjust to living together again.
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[Apr. 21st, 2009|12:54 pm] |
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I am very sick. What I thought was allergies is obviously more than that. I could barely see straight sunday night on the ferry (moving Tim back). I managed to go to work yesterday all hopped up on allergy meds and cold meds but again last night felt defeated. I went to bed early for a second time, wanting nothing more than to hang out with Tim and hear about his first day at the new firm. Over the night, I was waking up and sneezing, then waking up to the more terrible pain all over my face (from my sinuses to my jaw to my eyes). Today I am home from work, drugged up, trying to sleep and now about to eat Kraft Dinner for lunch. I know I should make something healthy and full of garlic but I am so tired and sore that I am taking the lazy route. I know I will enjoy the fake cheezy goodness. |
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[Apr. 16th, 2009|09:47 pm] |
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Tomorrow I am going to Vancouver to see Tim and ultimately to help him move home. Home is in Victoria. Home is where Tim and I are together. I can't wait. I have missed that man more than I thought possible. |
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[Apr. 13th, 2009|09:07 pm] |
Since I haven't been updating lately due to laziness, I direct you to a blogger who isn't lazy:
http://jessalynnkeller.squarespace.com/blog/
Jessalynn is an old friend of mine who is a freelance journalist about to begin her PhD in Media Studies. She updates regularly and explores lots of interesting topic relating to media, feminism and pop culture.
Enjoy!
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[Apr. 2nd, 2009|07:39 am] |
I think I was distraught about the recent fight Tim and I had more because of the long distance than the actual fight - although it was interesting that everyone who commented seemed to think that my snooping could be excused. The upsetting part for me was that we couldn't simply argue and make up. Over the phone it's hard to know how sincere someone is, if you can't see their face how do you really know if they have forgiven you?
All my anxiety was fixed when Tim surprised me with a visit on Friday night. I had no idea he was coming and was settling myself in for a weekend of hanging out by myself (grand plans of cleaning my storage room) when all of a sudden he was here! Surprises are fun ~ and so is having my sweetie here for the weekend.
Our 10 week stint is almost done. I'm headed over to Vancouver this weekend, next weekend is Easter (not sure what the plans are) and the following weekend I will help Tim move back! |
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[Mar. 10th, 2009|09:08 pm] |
I might be turning into a hermit. Maybe.
Is there any way I can excuse myself from a social life and sit in my pjs for the next, um, approximately 6 weeks? I'm not sure what my problem is, I enjoy going out, I even get excited about some outings (like swimming, or our upcoming work party) but for the most part I just want to lounge about in my dirty house reading. Is it so wrong to want to avoid the phone and simmer in my own thoughts for a while? Half of me is loving all this time to myself and the other half is feeling kind of disgusted at myself for not being a little more motivated ... |
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[Mar. 8th, 2009|07:40 pm] |
Got back from Vancouver at 2 pm, exhausted. Something about the ferry always makes me tired, and next time I swear I am going to think ahead so I don't end up eating BC Ferries food, seriously how many times do I have to make that mistake?!?
I had a fun weekend with Tim. I got in around 10:30 on Thursday night and Tim had Friday off school we we got to hang out and sleep in. Tim was pretty busy studying and getting ready for his mock trial so I spent a large part of the weekend either reading while Tim did work or busying myself without him. I had coffee and went shopping with Jessalynn and also had a brunch date with Jake and Ali. All in all, I had a good weekend and was happy to have spent some time with Tim. Being away from each other is hard, not just because we miss each other but because its hard to feel connected. Tim and I aren't the type of couple that spends long hours on the phone when we are away from each other. We usually communicate in one way or another everyday: texting, gmail chatting or emailing most days and then talking on the phone every couple days but we don't spend hours doing it. So when we are together it's hard to know about the everyday stuff that has been going on. Ph well, I think we are doing pretty well with it. I definately feel good about the weekend and hope his trial today went alright. |
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[Mar. 3rd, 2009|07:15 pm] |
Comment to this post and I will give you 5 subjects/things I associate you with. Then post this in your LJ and elaborate on the subjects given. This came from crys79 , who associates me with:
The Shop Easy – Oh, Shop Easy! The Clarence Ave Shop Easy is/was the grocery store on the corner of Clarence and 12th in Saskatoon. I worked there for years (maybe from 2001 to 2003? or 2004?) during my undergrad. It paid crap, the owners were racist, it smelled like smoked meat but it was an easy job and close to my house(s) so I stayed there. During my tenure at the Shop Easy I worked with two difference gals who I ended up becoming friends with and then living with (JoElla the first year I worked there and then Chanelle in my last year). During my time in Saskatoon I never lived more than 5 blocks from that place (other than those 6 weeks at Chad’s parents place). Do I remember the Shop Easy fondly? No so much ... Do I remember it? Like it was yesterday. Sociology – I have two degrees in Sociology (as soon as I finish revising my thesis anyway). I remember learning what Sociology was while I was in High School and thinking, wow, that sounds really interesting maybe I will be a Sociologist. I took my first Sociology class in the first semester of undergrad and I was hooked. The fact that I met one of my best friends in that class was just a bonus! I loved my undergrad years; I was co-chair of the Sociology Undergraduate Students Association, I sat as the Undergrad Rep for the Department, I spent my one term “off” between my undergrad and masters working in the Sociology department for one of my profs (shout out to the Schizzels yo!), I found the discipline utterly fascinating. Even though my masters degree taught me that I don’t want to be an academic (and I don’t really think of myself as a Sociologist) I am still proud that Sociology is “my” discipline. Plus, without Sociology I would have never met Dorothy Smith, one of the greatest and most inspiring people. Dorothy is the main reason that Feminist Sociology exists. Cooking – I am glad that people associate me with cooking. I love to cook, although these weeks away from Tim have taught me that I much much much prefer cooking with and for people than by myself. Although, I did have a delicious beet, carrot & ginger salad on quinoa for lunch today – but that is another story for another post. I have attempted/thought about/pipe-dreamed about making my livejournal a food blog many times but it never works out. First, because I am too lazy (and untalented) to take food photographs. And second, because I am not a good enough writing to make it interesting. It doesn’t matter, no matter what I do I am always going to enjoy talking about food (in person, on my blog, in my sleep) and eating food. Tim – How do I feel about being associated with Tim in my top 5 ...? Well, there is a time when I would have thought that being associated with my boyfriend through my livejournal was lame. Likely there are people who will read this who will think it is lame. Nonetheless, I am not embarrassed of it and it is not lame. Being associated with Tim through livejournal does not mean that I am just some girl who yammers on about her boyfriend on her lj (if you think that feel free to stop reading now and never come back). Talking about Tim on lj is about being happy, it’s about being in a healthy committed relationship, it’s about valuing the time I spend with my partner and then talking about the things that we do together. In my life, the things I do with Tim are important, because Tim is important and because I am happier with Tim than I ever thought possible. Another thing that I want to mention here is that Tim isn’t just some guy. Tim is one of the most passionate, dedicated, well grounded people that I have ever met. Honestly, he makes me a better person. He is going to practice Environmental and Aboriginal law. He has taught me so much about how to live better and how to be conscientious of the Earth and other people. He’s smart, funny and caring. He is also a damn fine Scrabble player. Victoria – Is Victoria home? Who knows? I don’t necessarily feel like I know Victoria the way I felt I knew Saskatoon. But, on the other hand, Victoria has a lot of good things to offer, for example the ocean, proximity to hiking and camping, bike routes, fish and farmers markets, good restaurants, moderate temperatures. Getting to know Victoria and the people in Victoria has been fun and I don’t feel as though I am finished yet. I am really enjoying being in Victoria right now (well, not exactly right now because Tim is in Vancouver). I like my apartment, I like my job, I have some good friends. Victoria is a good place to be now. I am open to going other places (other cities, other provinces, other countries). |
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[Feb. 28th, 2009|12:56 pm] |
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I drank too much last night. I had a good time but gosh I drank too much. I think it was the lame and reminiscent of high school drinking game that we played. I thought it was rather juvenile but didn't want to be the nay-sayer. Seriously though, who in their late 20's plays drinking games? Anyway, the night got better with some Tina Turner on the Sing Star (and me winning!). This morning though my head and my stomach are killing me. I am moving slow and wishing that I wasn't here by myself. Being hungover by yourself is the lamest thing ever; no one to complain to, no one to talk to, no one to cuddle with. I am officially counting down the days until next Thursday when I will be making my way to Vancouver to see my sweetie. 5 days until Thursday. |
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[Feb. 15th, 2009|04:09 pm] |
The domestic goddess might have taken a little va-cay but she is back!
Homemade spring rolls and potstickers in my freezer! Clean fridge!
Clean bedding!
Partially clean house!
Shined up my kettle!
Making stew for supper!
Ba-am!
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| the kind of girl with homemade hors d'oeuvres in my freezer |
[Feb. 15th, 2009|08:07 am] |
I have accomplished one of the ambitions of my adult life! Haza! Yesterday afternoon I met up with Marnie in Chinatown. Less than $20 later we had all the fixings for spring rolls and pot stickers. One more stop at the local butcher (Marnie’s local butcher near Estevan village in Oak Bay) for some ground pork and we were ready to roll. And roll we did! By the end of the night we had made over 60 appetizers. We had both veggie and pork spring rolls as well as pork pot stickers. We tried a couple and they are all delicious. Now, I am so excited to have homemade hors d'oeuvres in my freezer! Yesterday was a pretty great Valentine’s day for me. Last night after I came home from Marnie and Jareds place I check my email, read a little and went to bed – just like I would most Saturday nights while Tim is playing poker. Then, at 5:00 am I woke up. After a few minutes of laying there I realized that my body has probably become used to my Saturday night routine - falling asleep without Tim and waking up at some ungodly hour when he comes home. The latest he has ever gotten home is 5:30am and when he is that late I usually wake up before he gets in. I guess that is what happened last night, except he wasn’t really at poker, he was in Vancouver.
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[Feb. 14th, 2009|01:31 pm] |
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Today while running errands downtown I saw: 1. A man carrying a huge garbage bag full of recyclables riding his bike the wrong direction down Fort Street. He was weaving in traffic. He looked like he didn’t want to stop because he might spill his load. 2. A man pushing his shopping cart down the middle of Cook Street, just like he was a regular vehicle in traffic. I gave the second man a look, a smile and then a wave. The smile he gave me back was the warmest thing I’ve felt all day. This city needs to wake up. Homelessness and poverty are huge problems. I don’t know what the solution is but it sure as hell isn’t ignoring the problem, or arguing about where all the homeless people come from.
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[Feb. 13th, 2009|10:03 pm] |
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A friend from work lent me Jamie Oliver's "Jamie's Dinners" cookbook. There is nothing I love more than sifting through a cookbook and finding some inspiration. |
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[Feb. 10th, 2009|07:25 pm] |
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Not being around Tim is hard. Especially because I know he is stressed about the course he is taking and all the work he has to do to pass the exams (the BC equivalent of 'the bar' exam). I really wish I could be there with him, even if he has to study 4 or 5 hours per evening. I could cook for him and make him tea like we always do for each other when we're busy. I'm going to try not to be too much of a suck about it. My friends here are being great, inviting me out and trying to keep me entertained a few nights of the week. I know it will go by quickly, that it won't be too bad, and that years from now we will barely remember but right now, it's hard. When you find someone in the world that you want to be around all the time ... that's just it, you want to be around them all the time. |
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[Feb. 6th, 2009|11:27 am] |

The flowers my parents sent me for my defence over a week ago - cleaned about 1/3 of the flowers out today (which gives you an idea of how huge the bouquet was!). They still look pretty good after a week!
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[Feb. 5th, 2009|06:02 pm] |
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Tim is staying late at work tonight! Boo! Second last day of work, two days before he moves away from moi and he is at work late! Boo! |
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[Feb. 3rd, 2009|07:40 pm] |
Trying to feel OK about Tim moving to Vancouver this weekend. Trying to remember it's only for 10 weeks. Feeling like it will be a good change - a chance to do new things, develop new routines and find my place in life as a non-student. Trying to remember that he is busy this week, not avoiding or ignoring me. Sometimes I think I have so much growing up to do. |
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[Jan. 31st, 2009|10:37 pm] |
Just finished watching a very cheesy Hollywood movie about love. Seriously give me any Hollywood movie about love and I will bawl my eyes out. I just love love, I guess. It's cathartic for me I guess.
So this week I finished my MA thesis. Thanks again everyone for the best wishes! It's a weird feeling to be done - although I do have my revisions left but they are just editorial so I will do them whenever. It was so nice today to just relax and not *have* to do anything. Tim is out playing a marathon poker game this evening so I am just lounging. He moves to Vancouver next weekend (for 10 weeks). God, I will miss him. But in some ways it is good. It will be a good time to start new routines. To be with myself for a while sitting in the aftermath of my thesis, getting to know myself again. Plus I will get to spend every second weekend in Vancouver - which will be fun! |
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[Jan. 27th, 2009|05:05 pm] |
THESIS = DONE.
revisions = editorial (the best possible outcome). I am quite tired and ready to be wined and dined by my sweetheart.
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